Took me awhile to write this because I was dealing with alot. My FB page and account has since been deleted and blocked by her friend who works in Facebook as a software engineer. I dont know how to get my fb back but honestly, it doesnt matter. I have posted the same thing here as what was written in my facebook post.
Do not hire this maid, no matter what. Remember her face as she may have the means to come back into Singapore with a fake passport (she was making fake passports and diploma certificates for other Filipinos who she was planning to smuggle into China as maids). Yes, my maid from hell is operating a human-trafficking ring.
Name: Tan Judith Ducay
Nationality: Filipino
Married with 14 year old son
Passport No: EB9655645
Current Work Permit No: 025602072
I just spent the last 4 hours finding out and gathering sufficient evidence against my ungrateful maid who is having an affair with a maid agency owner (not sure if his agency is even legit) and have invited him to my house while nobody was home. She is also a big business women, running an illegal maid recruitment service with said singaporean guy to illegally smuggle maids into China. I’m just absolutely speechless, such an entrepreneur but can’t do simple things like remembering to close windows after she opened them.
Of course, let’s not forget that she is also such an awesome mother, that she feels she has a right to tell me that I’m not a good enough mother for my kids and texting her lover that she feels sad for my kids because they have a mother like me.
Hmm..
I would like to think that my kids thank their lucky stars that I’m their mother, and not her. But maybe, I don’t know, maybe my kids would like to live in a dump and never see their mother (or father) while scraping to get by. Doubt that though. 🤔 I may not be the perfect mother (who is?) but I give them a good comfortable life AND am still physically there for them every single day, night, bath, feed and sleep with them. So as a mother, I provide my kids with love, time and everything they possibly need plus more. And this bitch feeling sad for my kids? Hell, i feel like her kid has no hopes of going anywhere and is destined to die in the dump she put him in and left him.
I have been a super kind employer. No, seriously, I thought that by treating her with kindness, she will in turn appreciate that and just reciprocate. Obviously, I was wrong. I should have listened to everyone and just not go the extra mile because these maids, they never ever appreciate it. My mum even gifted her a $500 white gold diamond cross necklace. Yes, we are a family of good hearted idiots. What can I say, we just figured if we were nice, the maid will also be nice. I never ever restrict her food, she eats what we eat. In fact, I would often treat her to waygu burgers and truffle fries when we went out to dine because I know that is her favourite.
She tells her lover that I don’t give her food. 😶 Seriously? I could get staffs from the diner where I often dine at to verify this statement because they always take her order of wagyu burger with truffle fries.
This is the maid, that I trusted, that I treated well and that I would care for and gift her gifts on special occasions (birthday, mothers day, Christmas, new year, international women day etc). This is how this maid has decided to repay my kindness. To top that off, she is a Christian. Just…so holy. God must be proud. 😒
She has sent half naked photos of my son to her friends, strangers that I do not know and revealed very personal information about my family and even my address and home.
This maid is seriously a scary person.
Name: Tan Judith Ducay
Nationality: Filipino
Married with 14 year old son
Passport No: EB9655645
Current Work Permit No: 025602072
Lover’s name: Ross Chin (Singaporean)
Maid Agency: International Employment Agency located at 22 Sin Ming Lane
The two are scheming on making fake passports and diploma certs for Filipinos to illegally enter China and work as maids but under illegally obtained work permits that are supposedly for teachers. I have downloaded all their chat conversions and have all the information proof of them conducting illegal recruitment.
Hire her at your own risk!
*Update 1st April 3pm: Called MOM, they were unable to help unless I made a police report first. So called the police and made a report as well and then had officers come to my place with investigators and after a couple hours, I’m told that I need to bring this maid to MOM on Monday morning for investigation, questioning and interviews.
* Update 1st April 4:45pm: Ross Chin has deactivated his FB account.
*Update: Judith is now in custody of MOM. I have terminated her work permit and MOM has given her a special pass. She will be under investigations by MOM and if found guilty, be looking at 30K fine or 3-4 months in jail.
Although I have lost my facebook page, im glad that i raised enough awareness and managed to prevent the next employer from getting cheated into a horrible nightmare hiring her. The fact that this person, a mother, was circulating naked photos of my kids is atrocious and should be punished for child pornography!
Stay alert, stay safe!
xoxo,
MLBB